Sunday, November 06, 2005



Life on the train

A while back, I read a very interesting book that compared life to a train ride or a series of train rides.

Life is like a train ride it read. We get on, we ride, we get off. We get back on and ride some more. There are accidents and there are delays. At certain stops there are surprises. Some of these will translate into great moments of joy, some will result in profound sorrow.

When we are born we first board the train, we meet people whom we think will be with us for the entire journey. Those people are our parents.

Sadly this is far from the truth, Our parents are with us for as long as we absolutely need them. They too have journeys they must complete . We live on with the memories of their love, affection, friendship, guidance and their ever presence.

There are others who board the train who eventually become very important to us in turn. Those people are our brothers, sisters, friends and acquaintances whom we will learn to love and cherish.

Some people consider their journey like a jaunty tour. They will just go merrily along. Others will encounter many upsets, tears, losses on their journey. Others still, will linger on to offer a helping hand to anyone in need.

Some people on the train will leave an everlasting impression when they get off. Some will get on and get off the train so quickly, they will scarcely leave a sign that they ever traveled along with you or ever crossed your path…

We will sometimes be upset that some passengers whom we love, will choose to sit in another compartment and leave us to travel on our own. Then again, there is nothing that says we cant seek them out anyway. Nevertheless, once sought out and found, we may not even be able to sit next to them because that seat will already be taken.

Thats okay everyones journey will be filled with hopes, dreams, challenges, setbacks and goodbyes.

We must strive to make the best of it no matter what…

We must constantly strive to understand out travel companions and look for the best in everyone.

Remember that at any moment during our journey, any one of our travel companions can have a weak moment and be in need of our help.

We too may vacillate, or hesitate every trip hopefully we can count on someone being there to be supportive and understanding.

The bigger mystery of our journey is that we don’t know when our last stop will come. Neither do we know when our travel companions will make their last stop Not even those sitting in the seat next to us.

I know I will be sad to make my final stop. My separation from all those friends and acquaintances I made during the train ride will be painful. Leaving all those I am close to will be a sad thing. But then again, I am certain that one day I will get to the main station only to meet up with everyone else. They will all be carrying baggage…most of which they did not have when the first got on the train.

I will be glad to see them again, I will also be glad to have contributed to their baggage… and to have enriched their lives, just as much as they will have contributed to my baggage and enriched my life.

We are all on this train ride together. Above all, we should all try to strive to make the ride as pleasant and memorable as we can right up until we can make the final stop and the leave the train for the last time.
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At 12:35 PM, Anonymous Rusty Whitney said...

SUMMARY: What was the book? Whose photos are in the PowerPoint version of "Life on the train"? Did you do the .pps file?

NeoN --

A friend forwarded the PowerPoint version of "Life on the train" which is very moving. The PPS I saw stayed on the first slide and was viewable only by people with PowerPoint so I extracted the slides and music and reassembled them into a larger but self-contained file using AnixSoft's MySlideShow. I also removed the hiss with SoundForge 8 from Alan Silvestri's wonderful Forrest Gump music (who did this piano-only version?).

That version is at whitneytech.com/train.exe and whitneytech.com/train.zip

When I'm sure you're the source, I'll credit you and this site.

-- Rusty

 
At 6:25 PM, Blogger NeoN said...

Sorry am not the one who made it...

You can also download the free PowerPoint Viewer

http://www.microsoft.com/downloads/details.aspx?FamilyID=428d5727-43ab-4f24-90b7-a94784af71a4&displaylang=en

to view the .pps version found here.

did a bunch of googling and came up blank, you are the umteenth person who has asked, far as I can tell came from a book called

"the station"?

 
At 6:13 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

you can find the "original" [*.swf"] at: www.inspiringthots.net/movie/life-on-train.php

Many others to view....he is an artist, in the truest sense of the word....check out the "about us", and the "previous" "about us"

Sam
res1vixp@verizon.net

 
At 8:37 AM, Blogger aspin7 said...

Hi Rusty,
I recently viewed your version of Life on a Train and really liked it. I tried to forward the your link to it to family but they were unable to open and since then I also have not been able to view it. I was wondering if you would mind e-mailing the link to me. I found this video very moving during a difficult time and felt my family would also as we recently lost someone very close to use. Thank you.

Melody

 
At 9:04 AM, Blogger NeoN said...

I updated this post, now linked to a site that has the powerpoint file, and added the video of "Life on a Train"

 
At 6:47 AM, Blogger Pixie said...

You might want to view this on my web site:
http://www.pixiesplace.com/trainride/
I felt the PPS version was beautiful and wanted to make it available to all to view on the Internet. It's been up a few years now and is nicer in full screen.
Pixie

 

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